Bobbie and the Silence This morning, Bobbie didn’t chase. He just sat. Head on my knee. Two voices spoke: Singer: “You are not the thoughts. You are the one aware of them.” Tolle: “The primary cause of unhappiness is never the situation, but your thoughts about it.” I asked: Who is watching this pain — right now? The Aftermath You leave a long, toxic marriage. You think: “I’m free.” Then the floor drops. Your children — strangers wearing your eyes. Your