The Day I Finally Breathed Underwater  Freedom, for me, is the exact moment I learned to dive.  Twelve metres down, regulator in my mouth, heart hammering against my ribs, eyes wide open in turquoise silence.  I realised I could breathe in a place that once felt impossible.  That was the same feeling I had the morning the divorce was final:  I can breathe again. And I no longer need anyone’s permission. Brené Brown’s Voice in My Head  Brené Brown has been my quiet compa
