A Quiet Reflection with Bobbie  This morning, as Bobbie and I strolled along the leaf-strewn path under a sky that felt both heavy and hopeful, carried a question that has lingered in my mind for weeks — why do we insist we have no expectations in relationships, only to find them lurking around every corner, shaping our joys and shattering our peace?  Bobbie paused to sniff a fallen acorn, utterly present in the moment, and I wondered if he, too, ever grapples with the inv